Check it out! A clip from the Romney event our class attended even made it onto The Daily Show with Jon Stewart last night! One of our classmates was the person who asked the question about the Wall Street protests! There are also some SMC students standing in the background of the clip.
To view the video, click here. Enjoy!
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
NH Debates: Up Close and Personal
Last week on Monday and Tuesday, I took a trip with my Media and American Politics class to New Hampshire to attend several candidates' town meetings and the Dartmouth debate. The point of the trip was to see the relationship between media and politics on the campaign trail as well as exercise our First Amendment rights in questioning the candidates at the town meetings. It turned out to be one of the best and most interesting field trips I had ever been on.
At 8 a.m. on Monday, the 60 students both from our class and from SGAC (Student Global AIDS Campaign) boarded the coach bus and van, both bearing the name of our college, and started on our way. SGAC had a different mission, bird-dogging during the town hall meetings so they could get the candidates to commit to funding the eradication of AIDS in foreign countries. They dispersed their members throughout the audience, asking the same question, but framing it differently each time to try to make it one of the major issues for candidates.
Our first stop was Tilton, NH, where we saw Jon Huntsman speak and answer questions. We were told he was the most moderate GOP candidate. My classmates and I made up most of his audience, so we were the ones mostly asking the questions. We focused on a lot of social issues, like global AIDS and gay marriage, and he answered each of our questions as many times as we asked them. Even though he seemed to dodge certain questions at times, he told us he would look into the issues about which he had limited knowledge so he could try to solve them if he became president. Huntsman actually turned out to be my favorite candidate after the trip.
Finally, we attended the watch party for the debate, which was right down the street from the actual debate. An audience made up of mostly college and high school students was able to watch the debate on a humongous screen in the middle of the gymnasium. The energy was fantastic, as people cheered and boo'd at certain parts of the debate. The favorite phrase of the night seemed to be Herman Cain's "9-9-9" plan, and as the debate went on, there were very audible groans from the audience whenever he mentioned it. After the watch party, Huntsman, Michele Bachmann and Newt Gingrich came by and greeted the audience. This is where I was most impressed with Huntsman. Not only did he recognize our classmates and the name of our school when he saw us, he mentioned AIDS funding in his speech to the entire audience. At that moment, we knew we made some sort of an impact on Jon Huntsman and possibly other candidates as well.
I am so proud of my class as we made the national news and were able to respectfully exercise our First Amendment right to freedom of speech and take part in the democratic process. This trip was DEFINITELY worth it. I learned so much about the different politicians as well as journalists who cover them. Click on some of the links below to see some of the news sites that covered our participation in the town hall meetings:
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| Two other bloggers, Tarah and Gabbi, and me in front of the St. Michael's bus! |
At 8 a.m. on Monday, the 60 students both from our class and from SGAC (Student Global AIDS Campaign) boarded the coach bus and van, both bearing the name of our college, and started on our way. SGAC had a different mission, bird-dogging during the town hall meetings so they could get the candidates to commit to funding the eradication of AIDS in foreign countries. They dispersed their members throughout the audience, asking the same question, but framing it differently each time to try to make it one of the major issues for candidates.
Our first stop was Tilton, NH, where we saw Jon Huntsman speak and answer questions. We were told he was the most moderate GOP candidate. My classmates and I made up most of his audience, so we were the ones mostly asking the questions. We focused on a lot of social issues, like global AIDS and gay marriage, and he answered each of our questions as many times as we asked them. Even though he seemed to dodge certain questions at times, he told us he would look into the issues about which he had limited knowledge so he could try to solve them if he became president. Huntsman actually turned out to be my favorite candidate after the trip.
Dan Quigley, one of my classmates, asks Huntsman a
question during the town hall meeting in Tilton.
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| Huntsman speaks to the audience in Tilton, NH. |
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| Huntsman shakes hands of people in the audience on his way into the town hall. |
Next, our class went to the Concord Monitor, one of the bigger news publications in New Hampshire, to speak to the online editor, Meg Heckman. She spoke to us about how the coverage of the campaign trail has changed with the increased use of online media and social networks. She said the main issue she has encountered is in verifying sources and information. Since there is so much information online, it is difficult to find where some information comes from as well as distinguish between fact and fiction. "Breaking news" can sometimes just be rumors in this day and age.
Our final event of the day was going to Mitt Romney's town hall meeting at the Hopkington, NH town hall. Our classmates basically repeated what we did at the Huntsman town hall, asking about social issues and asking multiple questions about the same issue to push Romney to explain his positions. The difference was that Romney and his audience (half of which was my classmates and the rest middle-aged and elderly people) began to get annoyed with us. After one of my classmates asked the third question regarding his opinion on gay marriage, he refused to answer, saying he already answered the question, and moved onto the next question. He seemed to avoid questions from anyone our age for the remainder of the town hall meeting.
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| Mitt Romney addresses his audience in Hopkington, NH. |
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| Romney during his opening remarks. |
In comparing Huntsman's and Romney's styles, it was apparent that Romney seemed much easier to make uncomfortable with questions. Both candidates seemed more prepared to talk about economic issues rather than social issues. The difference was that Romney seemed to have more people from the demographic he was preaching to in his audience, and he was trying to keep them on his side. It almost seemed like our questions made him nervous and he was willing to do anything to keep the room on his side, including ignoring questions he said he already answered. We made up most of Huntsman's audience, so he really had no choice but to answer our questions if he wanted to keep the room on his side.
One of my classmates asks Mitt Romney about his position on
gay marriage.
The next day we attended the debate, getting to Dartmouth early to meet journalists and campaign officials. Among the most notable people we met was Fox Chief Political Correspondent Carl Cameron, who answered all of our questions from what his job was on the campaign trail to if he thought Fox news was biased. I asked him whether he had a prediction as to who would win the nomination, to which he answered that he hasn't yet collected all the information that will help him make his decision so it was too early to tell. He also talked about how the GOP candidates are people too and they are just as fallible as the rest of us. The campaign trail was the prime place to see their flaws and decide which candidate would be the best president.
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| Carl Cameron from Fox News speaks to our class. |
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| The entrance to the debate at Dartmouth. |
Finally, we attended the watch party for the debate, which was right down the street from the actual debate. An audience made up of mostly college and high school students was able to watch the debate on a humongous screen in the middle of the gymnasium. The energy was fantastic, as people cheered and boo'd at certain parts of the debate. The favorite phrase of the night seemed to be Herman Cain's "9-9-9" plan, and as the debate went on, there were very audible groans from the audience whenever he mentioned it. After the watch party, Huntsman, Michele Bachmann and Newt Gingrich came by and greeted the audience. This is where I was most impressed with Huntsman. Not only did he recognize our classmates and the name of our school when he saw us, he mentioned AIDS funding in his speech to the entire audience. At that moment, we knew we made some sort of an impact on Jon Huntsman and possibly other candidates as well.
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| Dartmouth gym where the watch party took place. |
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| Newt Gingrich after the watch party. |
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| Michele Bachmann greets watch party attendees. |
Two of my classmates and I were even interviewed by USA Today College!
If you would like any other information about the New Hampshire trip, or have another question regarding college life, academics, etc, feel free to contact me via email (emurray@mail.smcvt.edu), Twitter (LittleLizzie33) or Formspring (lizmurray3).
~Liz
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
One of the Best Things About College
Lately, I've been working on an article for The Defender about conversation partners, which is when American students pair up with international students in order to learn about each other's cultures and help the international student study English. As a student at St. Mike's, I've had the privilege of becoming not a conversation partner, but a friend to a few international students. One of the best things about college is you never know who you'll meet - or where they come from.
I've been friends with another student named Riko since freshman year. Riko comes from New Zealand, but she has family ties to Japan so she is often conversing with many of the Japanese exchange students. Riko is what you can call a genius. She is 17 and a junior in college, but you'd never know it because of the maturity she emulates. Riko has become one of my best friends in college, and we can talk about basically anything normal friends talk about. The difference is, however, that she has a huge understanding of three different cultures now and she is constantly teaching me new things. A few weeks ago, I was in her room and she pulled out a Japanese "Seventeen" magazine. "Seventeen" is very popular in America as many girls get advice on hair styles, make-up, clothes, relationships and more from it. Looking at a Japanese version, I was able to learn a lot about their culture and what the gender roles are like as well the way men and women are portrayed through their media. I was surprised to find that one of their fashions, as Riko translated for me, was called "American Casual". Riko said it is very fashionable in Japan for girls to wear jeans and a t-shirt and successfully "pull off" the look! Here in America, it is very common to wear jeans and a t-shirt every day and not think anything of it.
Last year, I also became good friends with Mai who is from Osaka, Japan. Even though she was at St. Mike's to study for only a year, we still keep in touch via skype and send regular messages to each other via Facebook. She was a wonderful person to get to know and I really treasure the bond that we formed. I learned a lot from hanging out with both Riko and Mai, including onomatopoeias in Japanese ("peta peta peta") and facts about Japanese food, culture, and music. I even learned how to make paper cranes from them, which is a beautiful and very complicated art form (I was definitely not good at it).
This year, I have another friend named Rui from Tokyo, Japan. I have just started to get to know her, but we are becoming fast friends. Rui asked to hang out with my group of friends because she thought it would be a better way to learn English. I really hope that we will be able to form a lasting friendship as well as learn from each other and about each other's culture until she has to leave in December.
Students do not need a conversation partner program if they want to get to know international students on a more personal basis, though it most certainly helps those international students who want to perfect their English skills. I have learned so much from the few international students I have gotten to know, and I hope to get to know more students during these last two years that I have at St. Mike's. I think some students forget that getting to know international
students is a very valuable and worthwhile experience. Who knows? You may even find a life-long friend. I love my international friends just as much as I love my American friends, and I am so glad I to have the opportunity to meet people from so many different backgrounds.
If you have any questions regarding international students or my life as a student at St. Mikes, please feel free to email me at emurray@mail.smcvt.edu.
I've been friends with another student named Riko since freshman year. Riko comes from New Zealand, but she has family ties to Japan so she is often conversing with many of the Japanese exchange students. Riko is what you can call a genius. She is 17 and a junior in college, but you'd never know it because of the maturity she emulates. Riko has become one of my best friends in college, and we can talk about basically anything normal friends talk about. The difference is, however, that she has a huge understanding of three different cultures now and she is constantly teaching me new things. A few weeks ago, I was in her room and she pulled out a Japanese "Seventeen" magazine. "Seventeen" is very popular in America as many girls get advice on hair styles, make-up, clothes, relationships and more from it. Looking at a Japanese version, I was able to learn a lot about their culture and what the gender roles are like as well the way men and women are portrayed through their media. I was surprised to find that one of their fashions, as Riko translated for me, was called "American Casual". Riko said it is very fashionable in Japan for girls to wear jeans and a t-shirt and successfully "pull off" the look! Here in America, it is very common to wear jeans and a t-shirt every day and not think anything of it.
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| Riko and me playing with photobooth on my computer! |
Last year, I also became good friends with Mai who is from Osaka, Japan. Even though she was at St. Mike's to study for only a year, we still keep in touch via skype and send regular messages to each other via Facebook. She was a wonderful person to get to know and I really treasure the bond that we formed. I learned a lot from hanging out with both Riko and Mai, including onomatopoeias in Japanese ("peta peta peta") and facts about Japanese food, culture, and music. I even learned how to make paper cranes from them, which is a beautiful and very complicated art form (I was definitely not good at it).
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| Me and Mai last year on Halloween. A bit of a switch of cultures since I'm dressed as a Pokemon character (Japanese) and she's dressed as Little Red Riding Hood (American). |
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| Rui and Riko on a recent outing to Burlington! |
students is a very valuable and worthwhile experience. Who knows? You may even find a life-long friend. I love my international friends just as much as I love my American friends, and I am so glad I to have the opportunity to meet people from so many different backgrounds.
If you have any questions regarding international students or my life as a student at St. Mikes, please feel free to email me at emurray@mail.smcvt.edu.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Living In a Four-Person Suite
Last year, I lived in an 8-person suite in Pontigny. Living with 7 other girls had its perks, but sometimes was just too much. This year, I'm living in a 4-person suite in Canterbury. The suite is much smaller, but we still all have our own rooms and we're getting along very well. My suite has become something like my own personal posse. Now, I'm not saying we're a clique, but it's nice to have a tight-knit group that I can eat my meals with, watch TV with, do homework around, and just hang out with. We still have our own separate lives so we don't do everything together. However, whenever the four of us do hang out, it's always a blast.
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| From left: Adrianna, Jill, Leah, and me! |
One of the secrets to our success is our suite contract. At the beginning of the year, we sat down together and drafted a list of ground rules for our suite in order to maintain a respectful and relaxing atmosphere. So far, it has worked out well. By drafting the suite contract, we know each other's boundaries. This way, we can solve minor disagreements and avoid big problems. For example, it is understood that things put out in the common space are free to be used by everyone. Certain things that are either labeled or otherwise specified to be someone's property can be used with the permission of that suite mate. In the common room, "majority rules". So, if the majority of people in the common room are studying, the suite mate who wants to Skype or watch TV (for example) should go into her room. As far as cleaning the bathroom and buying certain groceries goes, we rotate that responsibility so it is not the same person doing those things every time.
Now that we're into our fourth week of school, things are still running really smoothly. As I'm writing, Leah and I are sitting in the common room together doing homework and occasionally chatting. Jill is in her room doing homework and Adrianna just walked in to join us. Our suite is fun, comfortable, and just plain wonderful. I love it!
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Back to School!
Sorry for the delay on the blog post! I've been busy getting moved-in and situated back here at SMC! Here's a bit of a re-cap of the past few weeks for me:
- I moved in with my brother on Thursday, August 28. I am living in a four-person suite Canterbury Hall this year (one of the suites) and I am loving it! My suitemates are great. I have been friends with all of them since freshman year, and since I started living with them this year, we have become even tighter (if that is even possible). One of my suitemates, Adrianna, is the RA of our floor in Canterbury. We all keep pretty busy with our schoolwork, but we make time to hang out as a suite too. So far, we're having a lot of fun!
- I am working for Defender this year. Today, we laid out our second issue. It looks like the paper will be coming out bi-weekly for the most part. It is hard work, but so much fun! Since I'm now in my junior year, most of my classes are focused in my major. That means I'm in Bergeron A LOT. I feel like I'm in my own little world. Not only are 3 out of my 4 classes held in Bergeron, I also spend most of every other Sunday laying out the paper (from about 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.). It's a lot of work, but I really like it. Our staff is starting to become pretty close, and we've really learned to work together to get the paper done in time. The best part is we get pizza from Leonardos while we work! YUM!
- Like I said, most of my classes are journalism classes. This semester, I'm taking Media and American Politics, Media Law and Ethics, Publication Editing and Design, and Honors Colloquium. All of my classes are pretty busy, but VERY interesting. My professors are so knowledgeable, and I am learning a lot already (and we're only in the second week!). As usual, my planner is pretty full of assignments, interviews, reminders, etc., but I somehow find a way to get it all done. Time management is key in college. Now that I'm in my third year, I'm getting the hang of it pretty quickly.
- There have been some pretty awesome activities both on and off campus recently. Last weekend, my suitemates and I went to the Champlain Valley Fair. The fair is just up the road from school at the Champlain Valley Exposition and is usually happening right when students are moving back into school. There are rides, animals, craft fairs, art demonstrations, food, and tons more! It is a lot of fun to go there for the afternoon. The downside is that the rides are pretty expensive to ride, but there are so many other things to do that it is not that big of a deal. While I was there, I saw all the animals, got a maple creemie (YUM!), and went to the craft fair.
We took our picture in one of the mirrors hanging from the ceiling! Look at all the art around us!
A spinning light in front of the building of lights! There was easily over 200 different lights in the rooms.
- I moved in with my brother on Thursday, August 28. I am living in a four-person suite Canterbury Hall this year (one of the suites) and I am loving it! My suitemates are great. I have been friends with all of them since freshman year, and since I started living with them this year, we have become even tighter (if that is even possible). One of my suitemates, Adrianna, is the RA of our floor in Canterbury. We all keep pretty busy with our schoolwork, but we make time to hang out as a suite too. So far, we're having a lot of fun!
- I am working for Defender this year. Today, we laid out our second issue. It looks like the paper will be coming out bi-weekly for the most part. It is hard work, but so much fun! Since I'm now in my junior year, most of my classes are focused in my major. That means I'm in Bergeron A LOT. I feel like I'm in my own little world. Not only are 3 out of my 4 classes held in Bergeron, I also spend most of every other Sunday laying out the paper (from about 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.). It's a lot of work, but I really like it. Our staff is starting to become pretty close, and we've really learned to work together to get the paper done in time. The best part is we get pizza from Leonardos while we work! YUM!
- Like I said, most of my classes are journalism classes. This semester, I'm taking Media and American Politics, Media Law and Ethics, Publication Editing and Design, and Honors Colloquium. All of my classes are pretty busy, but VERY interesting. My professors are so knowledgeable, and I am learning a lot already (and we're only in the second week!). As usual, my planner is pretty full of assignments, interviews, reminders, etc., but I somehow find a way to get it all done. Time management is key in college. Now that I'm in my third year, I'm getting the hang of it pretty quickly.
- There have been some pretty awesome activities both on and off campus recently. Last weekend, my suitemates and I went to the Champlain Valley Fair. The fair is just up the road from school at the Champlain Valley Exposition and is usually happening right when students are moving back into school. There are rides, animals, craft fairs, art demonstrations, food, and tons more! It is a lot of fun to go there for the afternoon. The downside is that the rides are pretty expensive to ride, but there are so many other things to do that it is not that big of a deal. While I was there, I saw all the animals, got a maple creemie (YUM!), and went to the craft fair.
This sheep tried to stick its head through the fence when I was taking the picture! So cute!
My three suitemates (from left, Leah, Jill, and Adrianna) at the fair!
This weekend, we all went to the Art Hop in Burlington. The Art Hop is a weekend-long event where local artists put their artwork on display. It is a pretty big event, and there are musicians and food vendors there along with the artists. This year was the first year I attended the Art Hop, and I had a lot of fun! The art was really interesting, and the artists were all very nice to talk to. Some of the artists were even doing demonstrations of their art form! It was a really fun and interesting event to attend.
We took our picture in one of the mirrors hanging from the ceiling! Look at all the art around us!
Leah and Jill look closely at a piece of art. It was a peacock made out of different kinds of paper.
A spinning light in front of the building of lights! There was easily over 200 different lights in the rooms.
Jill, Leah, and Adrianna turn to pose for a photo on our way to the next exhibit!
This weekend was also the "Welcome Back" weekend on campus. On Saturday afternoon, we had the Welcome Back Bash on the 300's field. I performed with the tap club at the event, and the Acabellas and the Celtic Knights performed as well. There wasn't a huge turn-out at first, but as the performances went on, more and more people came outside. Saturday night was the night of the Hi-lighter Dance. This dance is a black light dance, and everyone dresses in white t-shirts so they can be written on with hi-lighter. The shirts look really cool in the black light! The dance was awesome! I went with a bunch of friends and just danced the night away! It was a blast.
Well, there's the re-cap! I promise to post pictures of my suite soon so you can all get a glimpse of what upperclassman housing looks like. I may also post a few pictures of my brother's room in Joyce so you can see some freshman housing as well. Please feel free to email me (emurray@mail.smcvt.edu) with any questions or comments! Thanks!
~Liz
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Let the countdown begin!
With nine days until I return to SMC's campus, I thought I'd finally write about why I love this school so much. As many of my close friends know, I CAN'T WAIT to get back to campus. There is so much to look forward to, and I am really excited to jump right back into everything.
First, I am really looking forward to seeing all my friends. The community at Saint Mike's is one of my favorite things about the school. I have made some of my best friends in college. The best part about Saint Mike's community is that everyone is so friendly and willing to help one another. I have found that Saint Mike's is not cliquy like high school. Another big difference is you are living with all these people so you are forming much different (and sometimes tighter) friendships. I love all the friends I have made at Saint Mike's and I can't wait to see all of them.
I can't wait for my classes this semester! I am taking three journalism classes and honors colloquium, so I will have a full schedule, but I am really looking forward to diving into all my studies. (Some would call me a geek, but I just think I have a good reason to be this way.) The professors at Saint Mike's are awesome and so personable. The best thing about them is they are more than willing to help their students out, but the students need to ask for the help. I think I've only had one professor that I haven't really enjoyed at my three years at Saint Mike's, but this professor was teaching the wrong sized class. That's pretty good if you think about it that only 1 teacher out of probably over 20 that I've had was less than satisfactory. I really enjoy the classes at Saint Mike's so I'm looking forward to delving into everything.
The surrounding area is wonderful as well. There is always something to do in Burlington, whether it be eating at one of the restaurants, going to the Saturday morning farmer's markets in the fall, grabbing some Ben and Jerry's ice cream, or just hanging out at the lake front. With all of the activities on campus on top of that, you will never be at a loss of things to do. As a girl who loves to be busy and go on adventures, I am totally psyched to get back up there.
Finally, I'm excited for all my extracurricular activities. I am the co-president of the tap club at SMC, so I am excited to share the tap steps I learned this summer with all the members. It has been such an awesome experience to be the founder and leader of a club at SMC, and I really love how dedicated all the members are to the club. I'm also excited to be an editor on The Defender staff. I LOVE writing and reporting and I'm excited to be able to take on somewhat of a leadership position on the staff. Being a blogger this year is also very exciting, as well as taking part in some of the community service activities MOVE offers during the year.
As you get closer to starting your 4 years at Saint Michael's, I just want to say this. Your college experience is what you make it. Don't be afraid to try new things or talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to. Dive right in because Saint Mike's has so much to offer. I hope you love it as much as I do.
First, I am really looking forward to seeing all my friends. The community at Saint Mike's is one of my favorite things about the school. I have made some of my best friends in college. The best part about Saint Mike's community is that everyone is so friendly and willing to help one another. I have found that Saint Mike's is not cliquy like high school. Another big difference is you are living with all these people so you are forming much different (and sometimes tighter) friendships. I love all the friends I have made at Saint Mike's and I can't wait to see all of them.
I can't wait for my classes this semester! I am taking three journalism classes and honors colloquium, so I will have a full schedule, but I am really looking forward to diving into all my studies. (Some would call me a geek, but I just think I have a good reason to be this way.) The professors at Saint Mike's are awesome and so personable. The best thing about them is they are more than willing to help their students out, but the students need to ask for the help. I think I've only had one professor that I haven't really enjoyed at my three years at Saint Mike's, but this professor was teaching the wrong sized class. That's pretty good if you think about it that only 1 teacher out of probably over 20 that I've had was less than satisfactory. I really enjoy the classes at Saint Mike's so I'm looking forward to delving into everything.
The surrounding area is wonderful as well. There is always something to do in Burlington, whether it be eating at one of the restaurants, going to the Saturday morning farmer's markets in the fall, grabbing some Ben and Jerry's ice cream, or just hanging out at the lake front. With all of the activities on campus on top of that, you will never be at a loss of things to do. As a girl who loves to be busy and go on adventures, I am totally psyched to get back up there.
Finally, I'm excited for all my extracurricular activities. I am the co-president of the tap club at SMC, so I am excited to share the tap steps I learned this summer with all the members. It has been such an awesome experience to be the founder and leader of a club at SMC, and I really love how dedicated all the members are to the club. I'm also excited to be an editor on The Defender staff. I LOVE writing and reporting and I'm excited to be able to take on somewhat of a leadership position on the staff. Being a blogger this year is also very exciting, as well as taking part in some of the community service activities MOVE offers during the year.
As you get closer to starting your 4 years at Saint Michael's, I just want to say this. Your college experience is what you make it. Don't be afraid to try new things or talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to. Dive right in because Saint Mike's has so much to offer. I hope you love it as much as I do.
This is my first (and best) friend Mike on pre-orientation day before our freshman year. He will be a freshman RA in Lyons hall this year.
This is my floor and me on one of our floor outings at the beginning of freshman year. We went to Papa Frank's for dinner in Winooski. I lived with 7 of the girls from that floor last year and will be living with 3 different girls from the same floor this year.
This is me and my freshman roommate Sam. We became fast friends during freshman year, and we are still very good friends. This was taken on a "roomie date" we had during the fall.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Adjusting to Living With A Roommate
For many of you, living on campus as a freshman is the first time you will be living with a roommate. I already had experience when I was coming into freshman year since I've shared a room with my sister since I was 4 years old. Sometimes transitioning into sharing a room can be difficult, especially if you have never shared a room ever. Here are some tips to make living with your roommate a good experience:
1. Get in contact with your roommate before you move in on August 25th.
Start getting to know your roommate. Find them on Facebook, call them on the phone, or email them. Start to get to know each other as you plan what to bring for your room. Figure out what you have in common and work off that. You don't have to become best friends before you come to school, but communicating with them a little bit is a good start to your "roomie" relationship.
2. Make a roommate contract.
Every set of roommates will need to do this and hand it into their RA. Don't blow this off though because this will shape the kind of relationship you want to have with your roommate for the entire year. Spend some time hashing out a set of conduct rules that you and your roommate should follow in order to have a pleasant year together.
3. Communicate.
If you are having someone over or you're going to be out late, let your roommate know so they aren't surprised at 2 a.m. when you return to your room. If you have a test the next day and your roommate is known for staying up late, let them know that you need sleep that night and you would appreciate it if they would try to be quiet. Communication is key to having a good roomie relationship. It shows respect for your roommate and keeps the air clear of any problems or issues. If you and your roommate have an issue, talk it out. The RA's are always there to help you as well, so if you and your roommate need help settling an issue, seek out your RA. It's what they're there for.
4. Make boundaries clear.
To avoid getting into any arguments or disagreements with your roommate, make sure that if there are any boundaries, make them clear. (This could also go along with the last tip: communicate.) If there is a certain snack in the fridge you don't want your roommate to eat, either mark it some way or tell them that it's yours. You will be sharing a lot in your room so if there is anything in particular (like a hair dryer, a snack, etc.) that they'll need permission to use, let them know. This will prevent misunderstandings during the year.
5. Get to know your roommate.
Ok, so not all roommates become best friends. In reality, some just don't get along. So, I'm not telling you that you NEED to become best friends with your roommate. You'll be living with them all year though, so get to know them a little. It makes living with them that much more pleasant, and it can be really fun sometimes (for example, my freshman roommate and I would go into Burlington on "roomie dates" and take pictures together or grab some drinks from Starbucks). Having a roommate is all part of the freshman experience so be open-minded and have fun with it. You could end up making a life-long friend!
If you have any burning questions about living with a roommate, please let me know! You can find me on Twitter (LittleLizzie33) or email me (emurray@mail.smcvt.edu). I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have!
1. Get in contact with your roommate before you move in on August 25th.
Start getting to know your roommate. Find them on Facebook, call them on the phone, or email them. Start to get to know each other as you plan what to bring for your room. Figure out what you have in common and work off that. You don't have to become best friends before you come to school, but communicating with them a little bit is a good start to your "roomie" relationship.
2. Make a roommate contract.
Every set of roommates will need to do this and hand it into their RA. Don't blow this off though because this will shape the kind of relationship you want to have with your roommate for the entire year. Spend some time hashing out a set of conduct rules that you and your roommate should follow in order to have a pleasant year together.
3. Communicate.
If you are having someone over or you're going to be out late, let your roommate know so they aren't surprised at 2 a.m. when you return to your room. If you have a test the next day and your roommate is known for staying up late, let them know that you need sleep that night and you would appreciate it if they would try to be quiet. Communication is key to having a good roomie relationship. It shows respect for your roommate and keeps the air clear of any problems or issues. If you and your roommate have an issue, talk it out. The RA's are always there to help you as well, so if you and your roommate need help settling an issue, seek out your RA. It's what they're there for.
4. Make boundaries clear.
To avoid getting into any arguments or disagreements with your roommate, make sure that if there are any boundaries, make them clear. (This could also go along with the last tip: communicate.) If there is a certain snack in the fridge you don't want your roommate to eat, either mark it some way or tell them that it's yours. You will be sharing a lot in your room so if there is anything in particular (like a hair dryer, a snack, etc.) that they'll need permission to use, let them know. This will prevent misunderstandings during the year.
5. Get to know your roommate.
Ok, so not all roommates become best friends. In reality, some just don't get along. So, I'm not telling you that you NEED to become best friends with your roommate. You'll be living with them all year though, so get to know them a little. It makes living with them that much more pleasant, and it can be really fun sometimes (for example, my freshman roommate and I would go into Burlington on "roomie dates" and take pictures together or grab some drinks from Starbucks). Having a roommate is all part of the freshman experience so be open-minded and have fun with it. You could end up making a life-long friend!
If you have any burning questions about living with a roommate, please let me know! You can find me on Twitter (LittleLizzie33) or email me (emurray@mail.smcvt.edu). I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have!
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